Lots of dogs go through a "what's in it for me?" stage (and this stage lasts longer in some dogs than others, right?). Mr. Hope is dancing around it right now, especially when I ask him to come into the house. Several of you asked about ways to handle it; not surprising, since most dogs aren't like the Lassie on television and don't automatically do what we want just because we love them. Here are some of the things I'm doing right now to get Hope to come back into the house from the yard. Of course, "But I don't wannnaaaaaa" is going to occur in different contexts, but many of the principles here apply to all situations, they just need modifying to fit the problem. COMING IN MEANS GOING OUT Hope loves loves loves to be outside. He'd happily stay outside all day long if he could. So, Read More
Have an Example of a Creative Reinforcement?
I'm working on a column for Bark magazine about positive reinforcement. It's such a simple concept once you get it, but it's a bit like riding a bicycle . . . it takes awhile to be able to do it comfortably and effectively. In the column, I want to stress that it is the receiver who defines what is "positive reinforcement," not the giver. I find that to be one of the biggest mistakes that we humans make: doing things we think our dogs like, that they actually define as aversive (and therefore act as positive punishment, exactly the reverse of reinforcement!). The most common example of this mis-communication is when people praise and pet their dogs either in ways the dog does not enjoy (especially patting on top of the head) or at a time that the dog doesn't want to be petted (while Read More
Positive Reinforcement is Defined by the Receiver!
Home. Ummmm, feels so good. Even though the trip was wonderful in so many ways, it is SO good to be home. As I wrote earlier, I greatly enjoyed presenting a seminar in Sweden---the people were so kind and interesting, and our vacation in the fjord country of Norway was heavenly. (see the photos attached). And yet... Dorothy was right. There's no place like home. I wonder how many dog lovers are as ambivalent as I. I love to travel. I love seeing new places, eating new food, learning about new cultures, eating new food, seeing the world from new perspectives, eating new food. Did I mention eating new food? (If you go to southern Sweden, you really, really want to try Äggakaka. It's an eggy, creamy, quichey, omelettey thing, covered with Ligonberry sauce. Yummy) And yet, as much as I Read More